November 17, 2015
What does it take to be a winning youth coach? Listen in as Reed Maltbie shares stories and discusses his journey to becoming a successful youth sports coach.
Coach Reed experienced his own successful soccer career, including being a member of the 1992 Davidson College Final Four team. That dream season ended on their home field, in North Carolina, with a heartbreaking overtime loss to University of San Diego. As sad as it was, the experience left Reed with a deep understanding of what it takes to be a champion. At a school like Davidson, though, he also came to realize the fine balance between champions in the game and champions beyond the game. Soccer was a vehicle to becoming a better person.
Coach Reed turned down the opportunity to continue his career and stepped away from soccer in 1997 to focus on advancing his academic studies of sport, communication, and education. Since 1997 he has gone on to attain two Master’s Degrees. One degree is in sport psychology from Miami University. The other is in Education from the College of Mount St. Joseph. Just as in soccer, Reed excelled in the classroom, developing research that delved into the relationships between mental imagery and success and words and performance. He was highly respected by his peers for his assertions regarding the communication of coaches. He has had multiple papers published and has presented at several academic conferences.
Coach Reed combines his experiences as a player and coach, with his research as an academician to continually develop new methods and styles of coaching youth athletes. One thing continues to stand out to Coach Reed: the words coaches use are far more important than any skill they teach.
He is now the Executive Director of the STARS soccer club in Cincinnati, a TEDx speaker, and most recently joined the Changing the Game Project staff.
TEDx talk: http://youtu.be/EhRXQs0K6ls
Listen in ITunes: Itunes link
Listen in Stitcher: Stitcher link
‘What’s your Echo? Coach beyond the game’
My Cringe & ‘Ah-Ha’ Moments
- Being a coach is all about evolving
- When young, Coach Reed was very aggressive, focused on winning
- A-ha moment – Reed’s son started disparaging the referees while watching a game on TV, and Reed realized he was just imitating his Dad
Coaching your own kids
- It’s a great blessing to spend time with your kids and coach them, but it comes with challenges
- Enjoy the time, then pass them along when it’s time for someone else to coach them
Teaching Children & Keeping it Fun
- Kids are very literal – ‘Grab some grass’ – they all grabbed grass and handed it to coach
- Kids hang on every word you say – they will mirror your actions
- Set up a proper classroom environment
HUGE IDEA #1
- Scaffolding – Break down everything into chunks
- 4T Model – Technical, Topic, Tactical, Tie-in
- Words echo – the words you use when coaching kids matter – be careful choosing what words you use
Self-Confidence and teaching kids to achieve peak performance
HUGE IDEA #2
- Begin by reducing stress by reducing constraints:
- Lots of physical space
- No defense or few defenders to gain confidence first
- Stress can be good – but only if it’s manageable because they have had success and know they can overcome it
- Turn the confidence internal so that they are doing it for themselves. Let them ask question and begin to solve the game themselves, so they get excited about solving the problem. Seek the joy- help them find the things they love and keep doing it.
- Give them a challenge, and see if one of the players can figure it out on their own. If one does – let him/her show the team. If not, give them a hint and let them keep trying.
Culture – Discipline/Rewards/Teambuilding
- It’s all about building a culture. Instead of calling them rules – have the team create ‘Habits of excellence’
- Kids need constant feedback. Not just meaningless praise. Specific positive feedback that is something they can control.
- Reward the actions you want to see, not just the goal-scorer. If a defensive player made a good stop and then passed the ball to the goal-scorer – make sure to acknowledge the defensive player and celebrate his great play too, not just the goal-scorer.
Connecting with and Impacting Kids
- Reed was struggling with how the system was only helping the top 1% athletes, when he went to a speech by one of his players who talked about how he taught that kid integrity, brotherhood, teamwork, etc. It really helped Reed realize he was doing the right things for all the kids.
The One that Got Away
- Coach Reed had a conflict with a league director who mandated that Reed coach the players in a way that the director wanted to build up their own development academy, but didn’t make sense for the team. Reed coached one game in the way the director wanted, and it went horrible. Reed regrets not standing up to the director and letting his team down.
Coachreed.com & TEDx talk
- TEDx talk – ‘Whats Your Echo’ – http://youtu.be/EhRXQs0K6ls
- Coachreed.com – Teaching coaches how to coach beyond the game